YOU Make Your Life Miserable

I recently posted this as a status on Facebook:

 

"Here are five simple rules of living a happy life:

1. You aren't happy with the person you're with? BREAK UP AND DON'T TAKE THEM BACK.
2. You're scared you won't find someone else? SUCK IT UP. WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE. GO OUT MORE AND MAYBE YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN WHO YOU WERE WITH.
3. You're broke? GET A JOB.
4. You hate the job you have? FIND A NEW ONE.
5. You have no friends? MAYBE BECAUSE YOU'RE COMPLAINING SO MUCH ABOUT HOW UNHAPPY YOU ARE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND, HOW YOU'LL NEVER FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY, AND THE FACT THAT YOU'RE SO BROKE.

Only YOU can make your life miserable."

 

Now, I am only going to elaborate on two rules, and that's number one and two. They make me the angriest.

 

I couldn't take it anymore. Do you know how many times I've looked through my feed and people are writing a status saying "OMFGz my boyfriend cheated on me. I don't even know how he feels anymore." but then the next day they're all like "LOLzZZz Tony took me to dinner and proposed HE LOVES ME<3333".

 

NO HE DOESN'T. TONY IS PLAYING YOU LIKE A MOTHERFUCKING FLUTE.

 

Girls are idiots. Let me just state that. And that's coming from one so you KNOW it's the truth. I've been there, done that..but I was also 18 years old. Once you're past a certain age, I think dealing with shit like this should be illegal.

 

I had two past boyfriends who both cheated on me. I actually never caught them in the act, I used my sneaky psycho snooping abilities (remember, I was 18!) and heard incriminating voicemails/texts and I did not hesitate to dump their asses. But there are girls out there who will see or hear things and STILL STAY. I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND THAT. If he did it once, he's doing it again. Which they end up finding out later on BUT THEN THEY STAY AGAIN! SERIOUSLY?! Then they complain about how unhappy they are in their relationship. So you say "Why don't you break up with him? I mean, he did cheat." and the girl's like "I'll never find another person who can make me happy. I'm afraid of being alone."

 

SHUT UP.

 

You're telling me that you will put up with a lying, cheating, disgusting piece of shit in order to not be alone? That makes you weak. And stupid. And dumb. And any other synonym of UNINTELLIGENT.

 

TWICE this has happened to me, and though it sucked not having any guy to kiss or bone, I was SO MUCH MORE HAPPIER because I wasn't with the DICKFUCK anymore!! And it gave me an opportunity to find an amazing guy (which is very true, I finally found the one that made me question why I even dated those other assholes).

 

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying my relationships were perfect before they cheated on me. We would fight constantly because we had no communication (WHICH, I might add, IS A HUGE PRIORITY IN A RELATIONSHIP. NO relationship is good unless you both have great communication). So I was an idiot for sticking around to begin with, but once someone has crossed that line, for example: cheat, that's a totally different story. Fighting is one thing, but to cheat, that is downright WRONG. I don't tolerate that shit. And neither should any of YOU. It makes the guy think it's OK to do. And it isn't, obviously.

 

But let me stop, I'm being redundant. I think you can all see the point I'm trying to make:

 

YOU make your life miserable.

Don't blame your boyfriend, because YOU can easily dump his ass.

YOU are the idiot that keeps taking him back after he cheats.

YOU are the one that is believing all the lies.

 

YOU.

 

Y.

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So why don't YOU do something about it!